To the government of Pakistan:

Do not let the international aid organizations get their hands in your pie. If they have their way they will start demanding that you fight the Islamists in such a fashion that it will hamstring your efforts and ultimately drag the war on for, oh, at least a hundred years or more, thus creating a much larger refugee problem and causing millions more civilian deaths in the long run.

Do what the Sri Lankan government just did. Kick out the aid groups and the press and do what you gotta do to end this "conflict" quickly and decisively.